Only you can make yourself healthy and happy. This woman was eating one day when she suddenly couldn’t lift her spoon to her mouth. One side of her face down paralysed due to a stroke which she never expected. She has been the wife who did everything in the house without help from her husband whom she had four children with. Although there’s nothing wrong in a woman helping her husband but wrong when the man refuses to support or appreciate!

The effect of a selfish partner or spouse

Remember whatever you do will affect your partner’s feelings one way or the other. At times, we should ask ourselves this question; how will I feel if I’d been treated as bad as I treated my spouse or partner? Yes, we should put ourselves in their shoes too because when we hurt them it affects their mental awareness, wellbeing, mind, and soul. This story goes likes this, one day, a woman whose business did not turn out well in the United Kingdom decided to start one abroad (Nigeria) while her husband went home for a year in order to monitor the progress and logistics. She built a house, bought a shop and car with the husband’s name as owner. In two shakes the man changed from considerate calm husband to a bossy, arrogant selfish man who sleeps with different ladies. He stopped calling his wife but seldom answer her calls. Unfortunately, such ill news led to the wife’s poor health since she would always cry, worry, lament and refuse to sleep. Her doctor warned her of the rise in her blood pressure but she couldn’t help thinking, crying and worrying until the day she got attacked by a stroke.

Two years later, the husband returned when the business went bad and girlfriends in Nigeria disappeared. Three years after that, he is back to a good husband. Treat your partner right and he or she will be happy, leaving your children happy too.

Be careful how you treat your loved one.

What would you have done to prevent health problem if you were the woman? Comment and share, please.